Starting, and Building, a Compelling Conversation

How do start and build a satisfying conversation?
There are a million ways, but here's a simple slogan.
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You can create compelling conversations by asking simple, yet deep, questions like:

What brings you here? How did you hear about this class (party/event/movie)? What do you like to do online? Where were you born? How many miles do you think that is from here? Where are you in your family's birth order? What makes you smile? What have you been reading recently? Can you recommend any movies to see or rent? What's the most beautiful place you've seen? What qualities do you look for in new products? What do you look for in jobs? Which issues are important to you? How did you decide to live here?

Who chose your name? Why? What music inspires you? Where are you coming from? Where are you going? Where do you feel most comfortable? Why? How do you release stress? What do you appreciate about living here? What did you learn at your last job? What do you do to stay healthy? What TV shows would you recommend to a visitor to your country? Why? Have your habits changed in the last year? What changes have you seen in __? How would your friends describe you? What would you add?

So who do you want to talk to today? Who will you meet? What will discover about your new conversation partner?

“Colors fade, temples crumble, empires fall, but wise words endure.”
- Edward Thorndike (1874-1949), American psychologist

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Seeing photographs, hearing languages, and appreciating my life in Los Angeles

Sometimes living in Los Angeles feels fantastic. Beauty - in many forms - pervades. You look around, and you smile. The sun shines, the scene looks great, and many languages fill the day.

I visited the Huntington Gardens, a beautiful oasis near California Institute of Technology, yesterday to catch a large photography exhibit documenting 150 years of Los Angeles history. Inevitably, I fell in love with the city again - and gained a new appreciation for how cars, film, oil, and immigration have created this global city of dreams and demons. The show, “This Side of Paradise: Body and Landscape in LA Photographs”, starred evocative photographs by numerous great photographers and attracted a fine crowd.

While moving through the city or going to tourist sites, I often ask myself a simple question. “How many languages did you hear today?” It’s a way to nudge me to pay more attention to sounds, along with the sights, around me. It also reminds me that I’ve traveled quite some distant from Crawfordsville, Indiana where I went to college or even Indianapolis, Indiana where I mostly grew up. This simpe question is also a lively conversation starter in cosmopolitian areas.

Los Angeles is both a great American city and an international magnet for artists, seekers, immigrants, and students. Yesterday I heard Russian, Spanish, Japanese, Korean, Chinese, Italian, German, Hebrew - and lots of English. Many other languages were also spoken, but I didn’t have the pleasure of hearing them. Art, photography, gardens, and culture brought all these people to share a common experience in multiple tongues.

“As one went to Europe to see the living past, so one must visit Southern California to see the future,” wrote Alison Lurie, an American novelist. Her words still ring true. And living here provides still more possibilities!

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